Marriage and the Royals

Eric and I learned a ton of cool stuff in marriage counseling with Phud.  We went through Tim Keller's "Meaning of Marriage" and there were things in the book that I have never thought of, things that were hard to swallow, and things that I think me and Eric have a pretty good jump start on.  He did mention this one thing throughout the book that I have noticed recently:

"If your purpose in marriage was to aquire a "soul mate"-- a person who would not change you and would supportively help you reach your life goals--then this particular reality of marriage will be deeply disorienting." 

He's talking about how your spouse will change. Age, jobs, children, everything will change us in some way and the spouse you first married won't be the same person in several years.  We change, and it's a good thing.  At least I hope I get more sanctified, get better at becoming a good wife, be more loving and selfless than I am now. So let's talk about a change that Eric has been instrumental in helping me with: the Kansas City Royals.  I used to not care that much about baseball.  I mean when you got 300 games a season and almost all of them are played during the hours you're at work, how can you follow that?  Well last week, he took me to my first (of many more I hope) Royals games.

And it was AWESOME.  It was a beautiful night (so that helped) and the stadium with all the fountains in the outfield was super cool.  And they won the game, so that was even better.  But why the Royals?  WHY is anyone a fan of this team? That's a great question and I'm not sure how anyone would answer it.  But I like that.  They suck, they don't have any superstar players, and apparently their management is a bunch of morons.  Listening to Eric and his Dad argue about this team for hours has done two things: make me wish I was in a different room when it starts, and really root for the guys in blue and white.  Royals-lovers for the past at least 20 years have gotten no rewards for being a fan.  The team does not pay them back with wins or really any kind of good decision making. But I kinda like being a part of that.  No stress, no pressure, no hiring and firing overnight.  And I like the players.  I like the way Eric Hosmer looks, I like Billy Butler's nickname, "Country Breakfast" and I like Alcides Escobar, their shortstop who I researched and decided to be my favorite player.  I'm partial to South Americans lately. I've mostly been a Yankees fan, and Derek will always have the #1 spot in my baseball heart, but I must say....my really hot fiance has got me cheering for the losers. Maybe it's because I love him so much.

You thought this blog post was about to get deep, right? Sorry, it didn't. Go Royals!